When you're gay, being single is never because you haven't found the right guy. Mike Alvear is the author of the instantly downloadable ebook, Meet The Hottie In The Corner--The 21 Day Plan To Overcome Your Fear of Rejection, Master the Art of Icebreakers and Snag Guys You Never Thought You Could Get.
I guess that's the main difference between men and women.
For men, intimacy is a consequence of sex; for women it's a pre-requisite.
Because ultimately, you want to feel happy inside when you're with the one you finally choose.
And that has nothing to do with how he exercises or eats. Tell us in the comments how you want to be treated...
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Sometimes it feels like the foundation of your social life is so strong that you no longer find the opportunity to meet new and exciting people.The other reason dating can make you so miserable is because often you don't give men a chance unless they meet your standards of perfection.That's why they aren't measuring up to you in those first 3 minutes. "Well, you can't do anything at eleven o'clock at night on a weekday except have sex and go to sleep," he'd say. And so, whenever he asked me out he'd hear a knock on his door around eleven. And thus, I was hurled into the basic gay dating dilemma: Do you have sex with someone you're physically but not emotionally attracted to? I remember him saying, "Let's do something, dinner, a movie." "I can't really do anything until eleven o'clock," I'd tell him.The Dewey Decimal system can't compartmentalize love and sex the way gay men can. We had a "Love Boat" moment when I grabbed his hand to help him up. Once your inner pig comes out, it's hard to coax him back in. I wasn't the bad guy but I wasn't doing him any good either.